Power of Friendship
Friendship is a relationship with broad ambiguous and even shifting boundaries. The terms friend and friendship mean different things to different people and different things to the same people at different times. It involves as little or as much intimacy as the partners are inclined to express at any given times.
Friends are not normally obligated to change benefits, but do so in ways that are often so natural as to be unwitting. The ties that bind them are by unfettered mutual consent. A friendship contributes a unique ways to personal development and well being.
Human beings are born into this little span of life of which the best thing is its friendships and intimacies…and yet they leave their friendship and intimacies with no cultivation to grow as they will by the roadside, expecting them to “keep by force of mere inertia.
Friendship is a blessing, and a friend is the channel through whom great emotional, spiritual, and sometimes even physical blessings flow. Friends will cheer us when we’re sorrowful or depressed. Friends will challenge us to attain our original limits with encouragement when we allow ourselves not to go beyond our reasonable boundaries. Friends will motivate us when we’re ready to give in, and they can provide for us when life falls apart.
What a wonderful thing it is to have a good friend. He identifies your innermost desires, and spares you the embarrassment of disclosing them to him yourself. It’s important to our friends to believe that we are unreservedly frank with them and important to our friendship that we are not. Only friends will tell you the truths you need to hear to make… your life bearable. A true friend is a greatest of all blessings and that which we take the least care of all to acquire.
These are magnet in your heart that will attract true friends. That magnet is unselfishness thinking of others first… when you learn to live for others, they will live for you…
So folks… Seek those who find your road agreeable, your personality and mind stimulating, your philosophy acceptable and your experiences helpful…let those who do not seek their own kind. Shared joys make friend, not shared sufferings. Life without a friend is death without a witness…
